A true man is someone who can gracefully accept the duality within himself. Every person, regardless of gender, embodies both yin and yang. It is incredibly cruel for a man to disregard his feminine side. A man must understand and embrace this duality, recognizing the innate sensitivity, the desire to listen, and the internal music that evokes within him. This understanding is the essence of masculinity. We’ve strayed from the true path of being a man, and the suppression of emotions—stemming from the inability to accept one’s pains, femininity, and sensitivity—often manifests in violent ways. This suppression is regressive to both society and humanity.
On a personal note, I often receive a lot of attention from women. However, my public persona can interfere with personal relationships. For example, on a date, I may be interrupted by fans seeking photos, leaving my date feeling neglected. Despite my efforts to ensure she had a good time, the reality is often disappointing for her. This is partly why I am single. Currently, my dedication is to my work and my responsibility to my audience.
I am a hopeless romantic. In past relationships, I made little extra efforts—like buying flowers several times a week, remembering her preferences, and giving surprises. I believe in normalizing the act of pampering a partner, especially during times when she might need extra care, like during her period. Although she may not need to be taken care of, I find joy in pampering her without any specific reason. This romantic energy is now channeled into my craft as an actor, as I need to stay focused on my career and audience. Hopefully, once I am more established, I can dedicate myself to loving someone fully.
My definition of love involves complete surrender to the equality of your partner. Love is about recognizing the femininity within oneself and the masculinity within one’s partner. It’s crucial to understand that a woman is not an achievement. The phrase “I got this girl” is regressive, as you cannot acquire a woman. Instead, you partner with her. Love is about surrendering to the innate equality between partners.
Reflecting on my upbringing, I did not witness this kind of love. My parents were best friends, but the understanding I have of love and masculinity is something I developed over time….
