Is your life your prison ? How to reclaim your freedom and liberation in life through Tantric Massage.

Our Journey

To give you a brief history of life before tantric massage! I had relatively happy childhood I went to college in London and achieved a degree and I continued to get a good job in life.  I met a lovely man, we fell in love, we got married, had 2.5 kids and we bought a house in the heart of London.  For all intensive purposes we were very happy. We had a healthy income and all that comes with this, so I actually felt quite guilty about not being happy.  My husband and I had a great relationship, though we had not done adventurous things like have a tantric massage before to be fair,   but we were very good friends. However, over the years things just seemed to slip into routine and my heart started to feel like an empty void, just moving from day-to-day.  Initially, I couldn’t pinpoint what exactly I was yearning for or where the sense of restlessness and dissatisfaction originated. Was it my marriage, my job, or perhaps something within myself? The answer eluded me.

This I suppose this led me to hours of scrolling around on the Internet, trying, and searching hopelessly for answers I suppose.  There were many life coaching articles that I read, as I was trying to find the meaning of my life, and wondering if it was perhaps hidden childhood traumas in my subconscious that was holding me back?  I had started to go back through my memories trying to figure out the first time that I started to feel empty inside and was there times in my childhood that I had first felt this feeling?  I do remember that I felt a great shame surrounding sexuality, that my mother told me not to show my arms or legs much and when I did wear a shorter skirt or something a bit racy, I had to fight the feeling of shame that would creep over me.  I came from quite a conservative family, and this very much shaped my views.  I was taught from a young age you should keep ‘a stiff upper lip’ and just get on with things, that you do not cry because is a sign of weakness. If something traumatic happened that one was to put it to the back of one’s mind and just get on with things. I think this created a disconnection between my heart, my emotions and my sexuality, I felt a deep sense of shame surrounding this issue.

Discovering Tantric Massage

Something called tantra came up in the search engine results and I started to read more about tantric massage and how this helps remove blockages in your body. I thought to myself well I could certainly do with some blockages being removed. I typed many searches into google like what is a tantric massage to do comparisons on different providers.

There appeared to be different types of tantric massage experiences too, like a Nuru Massage this was another version.  But to cut a long story short, I booked my husband and I an appointment with the ‘tantric massage London‘ company.  I booked us in for a ‘couples tantric massage’, how exciting! I remember I couldn’t wait to tell my husband Paul and the look on his face when I did tell him, was priceless. I had booked for a us to attend the tantric massage London masseuse on the Wednesday and we attended as scheduled.

Our Tantric Journey

We were greeted by two beautiful young ladies Yasmin and Freya with beaming bright smiles and a invited into a very quaint and colourful apartment, we were led down the hall and into the tantric massage room where we were invited to pop two sarongs on.

Our session began with tantric connecting exercises, a practice known as soul gazing, in those moments where Paul and I locked eyes, a wave of memories and emotions cascaded back into our minds of when we first me, the life we had shared to together, the laughter and fun as well as the challenges we had overcome. It was as if time stood still, and in that fleeting instant, I felt a profound connection with Paul that transported us back to the early days of our love, when passion ignited our souls.

We then did a heart connection, I placed my hand on Paul’s heart and he on mine, whilst connecting visually with each other. My heart melted as I received his love and I felt I reached into this soul with my hand.

The Tantric Massage begins

We then were invited to both lay next to each other on the futon, I felt Paul hold my hand his fingers interlaced with mine. As the skilled hands of our masseuses began their gentle caresses, my whole body relaxed. I felt the weight of tension and inhibition slowly ebb away, as if the knots of trauma that had bound my body were being unravelled one by one. With each stroke, it was as though layers of emotional armour were being shed, it was a very vulnerable experience.

I could feel Paul laying beside me and I could feel his energy, it really intensified the experience for me, his presence. I could sense the weight of his burdens lifting with each passing moment, replaced by a lightness of being and a newfound sense of freedom.  As our bodies moved in synchrony, guided by the rhythmic flow of the massage, I marvelled at the profound intimacy and connection that tantra had unlocked between us. In that sacred space as is called in tantra, we transcended the confines of our ordinary existence, merging into a single entity of love. It is not an easy thing to describe.

By the time our tantric massage came to an end, I felt utterly reborn, it sounds corny, but I honestly felt bathed in the radiant glow of pleasure, I felt liberated and empowered. The walls of my emotional prison had crumbled, replaced by an overwhelming sense of joy and fulfilment.  Tantra had bestowed upon us the gift of transformation, opening the door to a world with a renewed feeling of love and unapologetic pleasure, I felt no shame, just liberated.

As I look back on our journey, I am filled with gratitude for the profound impact that tantric massage has had on our lives. It has given us the opportunity to reclaim our freedom, rejuvenate our connection and break down barriers preventing us from exploring pleasure.  Tantric massage London was the gateway for us, and paved the way for a future filled with boundless possibilities.

Paul and I attend the Tantric Massage London team regularly now and have even learned out to do tantric massages on each other. It has transformed our relationship on all levels.


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  2. I am at some point in my life right now where i am being locked or stuck up in a toxic relationship and I am interested to go out of my comfort zone and try things that can free me on this situation. I guess Tantric Massage is a must try.

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